For horsewomen with a young or green horse they want to “do right” from the start

You finally have the horse of your dreams. Now you want to get it right.

A gentle, clear guide to raise your young or green horse into the safe, happy partner you’ve been imagining for years

So you stop worrying about making mistakes and can feel confident every step of the journey.

Dear Horse Woman, 

If you have a young or green horse and your biggest wish is to grow her into a safe, willing partner for many happy years together, this book was written for you. 

Not to give you one more set of techniques, but to finally give you the understanding behind them – so you can stop guessing, stop doubting yourself, and start feeling clear about what you are doing with your horse.

Before we start, an honest note

Before I tell you what this book is all about, let me be completely honest with you:

This book is not about quick‑fixing your horse’s problems. It will not give you a magic button or promise that everything changes in one weekend – because that would be a lie to you and unfair to your horse.

It is also not a step‑by‑step “do this, then that” training recipe.

And it is not a “just follow your fairy‑tale horse dream and everything will somehow work out” book. Sorry to disappoint you – but real horses and real lives are a bit more complicated than that.

Everything I describe in this book comes from what has worked with my own horses and with many students over the years. The principles are the same – but how you use them with your horse will always be your own journey.

What you get out of this book depends on many things: your starting point, your experience, your yard setup, and how much time and heart you can honestly give your horse right now. I cannot control these things – but I can give you a clear map so you stop feeling lost.

If you are hoping that someone will somehow “fix” your horse for you while you stay the same, this book will probably feel uncomfortable. If you are willing to look at yourself, learn, and take small, steady steps with your horse, then you are exactly the person I wrote it for.

Alright, with this out of the way, let me show you what you and your young or green horse can actually gain from it.

This is what you’re getting inside the “Understanding Is The Key” bundle

When you order today, you get the complete “Understanding Is The Key” book bundle inside an easy-to-use reading & listening app – plus the classic files if you want them.

The audio book, ebook and workbook,  belong together and give you the full learning experience: you can read, listen, reflect and plan what to do next with your own horse.

This book is different from most horse books because it brings all the important pieces together if you want to raise a young or green horse yourself – without getting lost in methods or endless exercises.

It will take you on a journey to give you the necessary understanding of the three big areas of horse training: 

  • Understand yourself – your motivation, your mindset and how you can grow into an authentic leader your horse feels safe with.

  • Understand your horse – how he sees the world, how he learns, and how to adapt what you do to different horse personalities.

  • Understand the journey – the big picture from foal to well‑educated partner for life, so you always know what stage you are in and what comes next.

The book has 230 pages full of real, practical information – it is not a thin “marketing book” with big letters and little content.

It is written in everyday language, no professional horse‑world techno‑blabla. I promise: you will actually understand what you read, without getting cramps in your brain.

New: Open your book with one tap

As soon as you order, you’ll receive a link to the Understanding Is The Key app:

👉️ It opens in any browser on your phone, tablet or computer.

👉️ You see big buttons for Listen and Read – just tap and it works. 

👉️ You can even add it to your home screen, so your book is always there with one tap. 

No need to “install files” or be good with technology.

 

"This is awesome!! It will make listening so much easier! It was frustrating having to remember where I left off in the audio version if I was mid-chapter. Thank you so much!"  —Lauren—

"Thank you so much. I now have it easily accessible on my home screen."
— Pam —

If you like to keep your own copies, you also get the Ebook (PDF) and the Audiobook (mp3) as downloads. But you don’t have to touch any of that to get started – if you can tap a link, you can use it.

A book you’ll actually use – not one that gathers dust on the shelf

Most horse books live on the coffee table for a few days… and then disappear onto a shelf. Life gets busy, and the barn is not the place where you sit down to read 230 pages.

Because this bundle lives in the Understanding Is The Key app on your phone, it can travel with you:

👉️ You can listen to the audiobook in the car on the way to your horse.

👉️ You can tap “Listen” while you muck out, fill hay nets or clean tack.

👉️ You can read a few pages on your phone while you wait for the farrier or your riding buddy.

Instead of “one more book you meant to read”, it becomes a quiet companion in your pocket – always there when you have 5 or 10 minutes, so the ideas actually make it into the barn with you.

What will change for you and your horse

The thing is: your horse is not the problem. The missing understanding is.
Here is what starts to shift when you put the pieces together:

  • You stop guessing your way through sessions and start arriving at the yard with one or two clear, simple focus points for you and your horse.

  • You understand why your horse spooks, freezes or explodes, so you can say, “Ah, I see what happened there,” instead of, “What is wrong with him?”

  • You learn how to lead like a good lead mare – not a doormat, not a drill sergeant – so your horse can relax and follow you with trust.

  • You see the big picture from foal to well‑educated partner for life, so you always know what stage you are in and what comes next, instead of worrying you are secretly skipping something important.

  • You discover the simple principles of how horses learn, so you can reward and release at the right moment and stop sending mixed messages.

  • You start working with the horse you actually have – his personality, his fears, his talents – instead of trying to force him into somebody else’s method.

  • You understand how your horse’s daily life (herd, food, movement, space) quietly shapes his behavior, and you can make small changes that solve “problems” before they even show up in training.

  • You learn how to plan and review your sessions, so even when days feel messy, you can still see honest progress over weeks and months.

  • You build the relationship like a bank account: many small, good experiences that add up until one day you notice, “We both feel safe together now.”

You want your horse to end a session thinking: “Ah, that was SOOO interesting!”

You create, what I call, a "Happy Learner" session by session. 

This book shows you how to create that, step by step.

What other women say after reading “Understanding Is The Key”

If this is how you want to feel with your young or green horse, you can start with the “Understanding Is The Key” bundle today.

It is not so much about the precise how-to of exercises, but to understand the WHY and the Principles behind.

Boundaries without breaking the relationship

You’ve probably heard it a hundred times:

“You have to set clear boundaries.”

Fact is – that is true.

But no one really shows you how to do this with a young or green horse without scaring him, shutting him down or hurting the relationship you care about so much.

Maybe you have already felt both sides:

Times where you were too soft, and your horse started walking into your space, pushing you around or simply ignoring you.

Times where you reacted too strongly, and you went home with a heavy heart thinking, “I didn’t like how I handled that.”

I see this so often with my students – and I was not better in earlier years. We all struggle to find that middle line between “too nice” and “too hard.”

In Chapter 11 of the book I show you:

  • What a healthy boundary actually looks like from your horse’s point of view

  • How to say a clear “stop this” without exploding or apologizing

  • How to combine love (undemanding time, care, presence) with leadership (clear rules and boundaries) so your horse can both trust you and respect you

The goal is simple:

You want a horse who feels safe with you and still takes you seriously – without you having to turn into someone you are not.

Making progress even if you are on your own

Many of my students don’t have regular lessons or a trusted trainer at home. They are mostly alone with their young horse – just like you.

In the book I show you simple ways to:

  • Make a realistic plan for you and your horse, so you keep moving forward without overwhelm or boredom

  • Check honestly whether your young or green horse is ready for new steps like first rides or leaving the herd

  • Know how to prepare your horse for next training steps so he feels good and everybody stays safe – instead of just “trying and hoping”.

So instead of waiting for the perfect clinic or instructor to appear, you can already take sensible steps with the horse you have, where you are now.

Fact is – no book can be for everybody. And that is perfectly fine.
I wrote this one with a very specific kind of horsewoman in mind.

This book is for you if:

  • You are willing to do what it takes to make your horse dream come true – and you are not interested in harsh quick‑fix methods.

  • You have a young or green horse and want to create a special bond and a partnership for life.

  • You want to train your youngster yourself and wish for a horse who enjoys learning and actually waits for you at the gate for the next session.

I wrote this book especially for women, because we often live this journey with our horses differently than men.

If you recognize yourself in this, I would be happy to share the “Understanding Is The Key” bundle with you.

Here is what to do next

My gentle but clear guarantee

Fact is – you cannot know yet if this is the right book for you and your horse.

So here is my simple promise:

Read it, listen to it, use the workbook.

If you do not feel clearer and calmer about your young or green horse within 30 days, just email me and I will refund your 24.99 USD – and you keep all three files as my gift.

I offer this because I have already seen this knowledge help many women feel safer, more confident and more connected with their horses.

Thanks for taking the time to read this letter and I look forward to speaking with you soon.

Best wishes

Gabi Neurohr

  • For $24.99 you get a complete bundle: an audiobook, ebook and printable workbook that show you how to raise and educate your young/green horse into a calm, safe partner.

  • You don’t have to fight with files. Everything lives in a simple app on your phone – tap “Listen” or “Read” and it just works.

  • You can listen in the car on the way to the barn, while you muck out or clean tack, and read a few pages whenever you have a quiet moment.

  • The workbook gives you clear questions and exercises so you actually apply what you read with your horse.

  • You get instant digital access, one simple, one‑time payment, and a 30‑day money‑back guarantee where you can keep all three files as my gift.

What other horse women say after reading “Understanding Is The Key”